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Waking up an hour later than planned (for the
first time in my life!) sent my husband and I into a frenzy. While I
desperately tried to squeeze my “shapely” thighs into just-out-of-the-wash
jeans, my husband dashed around the house gathering my things. I arrived at the
airport at the last minute and had to charm my way into my plane, which was
just about to shove off and taxi down the runway.
Eventually, we all got ready and headed out
for our big night on the town.
Picture the following scenario — a small,
two-bedroom condo right on the beach, two very small bathrooms, and seven
pre-menopausal women all trying to get ready for a night on a town at the same
time. The excitement, noise and laughter kicked the evening into high gear, and
we didn’t slow down for the entire weekend.
Observing this year’s Fab40 gang brought a big
smile to my face. How wonderful that seven women from all walks of life could
leave their husbands, boyfriends, kids (15 total), jobs, parents and
responsibilities behind, and come together for a weekend of fun and
socializing! All of us had the same agenda — we wanted to be happy, healthy and
content — and all of us deeply valued friendship.
A Hectic Departure
Wrapping It Up
However Lunettes
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have to leave, either. We stood our ground and firmly explained to the
bald-headed, overweight, arrogant bouncer (who was wearing sun glasses in the
middle of the night!) that there were seven very temperamental women in front of
him and he was being discriminatory. Between us we had the power to have him
fired and enough legal wits to file a lawsuit against his “fine” establishment.
He eyed us cautiously for a minute or two, and then reluctantly agreed that
maybe we could use the front door after all.
There are also health kits along the wall in
front of each side entrance. Midway through your fight, a phantom will drop two
more Jackals and a Brute major with a gravity hammer on the landing pad. Stay
on the second floor to kill them if they come inside, and if they stay outside,
you can deal with them later. Once only the Brute chieftain remains inside of
the building, you can safely kill it with your gravity hammer. Remember, it
takes three hits too kill the Brute chieftain if you are playing on legendary.
I find that the safest way to kill it is to jump down on top of it from the
second level.
First, enter through either of the side
entrances. These will take you to the second floor of the building. Kill any
enemies on the same floor as you, starting with the closest enemies first.
Then, kill any enemies on the first floor, but do not attempt to kill the Brute
chieftain. If possible, kill the Brutes with helmet headshots to avoid damage,
but use your gravity hammer if they get to close. Do not walk outside, or else
the shade turrets will easily kill you. If you need to restock on health or
ammo, there is an assault rifle and shotgun crate, health kit, and frag grenade
on the second level directly above the main door.
We spent hours putting on make up,
experimenting with different hair products and trying on each other clothes.
When was the last time we had really done that? Or, more important, when was
the last time we had the time, energy or desire to do that?
A Night on the Town
Greatly relieved at making the plane, I
dropped myself into a seat and slowly exhaled. After a moment to unwind, I
pulled out the agenda for the weekend and began reviewing the jam-packed roster
of fun and relaxing activities. This time around I hoped to get my Fab40 group
interested in setting up their own chapters, book clubs, gourmet clubs,
knitting sessions, etc., and give them suggestions on how to do so in away that
had all their sorority sisters screaming for more.
Controlled Chaos
At the same time, the seven of us were as
different as women can be. Although most of us were working girls, not everyone
had a hobby. I could see that I had my work cut out for me in terms of relating
how important it is to have something you can call your own Ray
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would bond within each passing hour.
Destination and accommodations are not
important. Weather is helpful, but not crucial. Shopping is great, but we could
live without it. What we couldn’t do without, and what made the weekend so
special, was the exchange of valuable information and nurturing support we all
gave each other.
At first we looked at one another in total
disbelief, then we burst into laughter. And that, ladies, is the greatest part
about being Fabulously40. Rather than taking offense at getting turned down, we
felt proud that we no longer had to compete. No longer did we have to prove to
anyone that we were smarter, wiser, more confident and more composed than some
6-foot anorexic creature with wildly bleached blonde hair and 6-inch high
heels!
The eve of my second official Fab40 All Girls
Weekend Getaway had finally arrived, and I found myself excited and anxious at
the same time.
Last year’s event was a great hit, however Replica Oakley Günstige, I knew everyone on that trip. This year would bring together several total strangers. I wondered…how will people I’ve never met fit into our Fabulously Forty Sorority?
Last year’s event was a great hit, however Replica Oakley Günstige, I knew everyone on that trip. This year would bring together several total strangers. I wondered…how will people I’ve never met fit into our Fabulously Forty Sorority?
The place was South Beach ,
the scene was “Night Life,” and we were dressed to kill, or so we thought. As
we approached our first night club — from the front entrance, like most people
do — we were instructed to go to the side of the building and find an entrance
there. We were just about to comply when a half-naked, 6-foot tall blond with
unbelievably long legs and a scandalously short skirt sashayed up behind us and
was immediately welcomed into the front entrance. No one instructed her to use
a “service entrance” to get into the club.
We arrived at our condo and crowded inside,
where we flipped a coin for beds and began unpacking. And that’s when the fun
began!
The irony is that once inside, we quickly
agreed that the place wasn’t good enough for the likes of us. We made a hasty
exit and headed down the street, where we found another club more to our liking
went and had a blast for the rest of the evening.
Many power walks, swim-a-thons, noisy book
discussions, movie reviews and “girl talk” sessions later, the weekend finally
came to an end. As we threw our belongings into our suitcases and prepared to
go our separate ways, we all came to the same conclusion about how to have a
great Fabulously40 weekend.
As my plane landed in Miami , I felt like a little girl going on her
first big trip to the amusement park. Inside the terminal, I met with my group
and was introduced to the sorority sisters that I didn’t know — about half the
group. With smiles and hugs all around, we set out on our journey.
Personally, I found it very soothing to feel
the camaraderie with other women who have the same weight problems, teenager
issues and Fab40 medical syndromes and concerns, who want the same things out
of life as I do, and more. My Fabulously40 sisters were empowering,
inspirational, insightful and funny. The weekend gave me a bust of energy, and
I really had to pat myself on the back and say what a great idea connecting
women all over the world and forming this sorority to grow and learn from each
other was!
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